Saturday, 28 January 2012

Grateful - not end up in the frying pan

Most days from son'rise to son'set are busy.

Not our farm but Broken Hill - quickest I could locate

New challenges emerge and I just don't know where to start as we settle in to our tree change lifestyle here on the farm.

There is a lot to do or NOT ; there is no real hurry.

I was reminded last night never to take anything for granted because we can lose loved ones in a blink.

Time after time I am humbled and inspired by words on redefining joy in our lives, no matter what the present circumstances.

I followed the journey of a blogger called Emilie with terminal cancer for a while.
Early in her journey she wrote ...
If there is a bright side to any of this, it's that the unimportant, superficial things in our lives have suddenly fallen away, and we are intensely focused on what remains truly important, which is each other, our family, and making the most of the time we have together now. Emilie Lemmons
Tragically, her time with her two young boys was cut very short.

Try as I might I can't help worrying about how much time any of us have.

The message I try to focus on - is life is far too precious and we should just live intensely in the present, absorbing and embracing life as it happens. Plan for future yes but live for today.

It means letting the superficial things in life go and stop sweating the small stuff. In the end will they matter ?

I thankful for the laughter, squeals and chattering that spills drink and crumbs through my home. {The floors are concrete now so it really doesn't matter}

I am grateful beyond measure that these sounds fill my ears home and heart because it means I have children who are happy and healthy. Children I never thought would bless my life.

I am thankful for my health and theirs. Our health isn't perfect and we have ongoing health issues , but we are still blessed.

I am thankful for my family and that most of time we get along and help each other out... thankful my Brother, Sister in law, niece and nephew who came to spend a few days with us. Plus extended cousins who came to visit too. We were all grateful the temperatures this year were in the 20's ° not 40's °.

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We had so much fun catching Yabbies in the dams - approx: 70 yesterday (from 2 dams) and again today (1 of same dams). I bet the Yabbies were grateful we only relocated them to another dam and not the frying pan {yet}. I guess it is all any of us can hope for any day not to end up in the frying pan and to keep swimming another day ! (Do yabbies even swim ? hmm)

Have you tried Yabbies ? How do you cook them ?





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Yes, sometimes we just have to focus on the small & what would seem as insignificant in our lives, because they are actually the memories we would treasure the most later on. I didn't catch any yabbies but glad to say I managed to spend some lazy but good time at the beach with the kids yesterday. :)
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The Beach wold have been super fun.

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Great post Trish...we must be grateful for all the little moment daily...it may be gone before we know it.
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I'm sorry for the loss of your blogging friend, and so sad for her family. I was also reading today about Naomi's friend who lost her son in October, and her husband just 3 days ago to a sudden heart attack. They're about my age, mid 30's. Far too young to experience such grief.

Reading LIsa's story today left me reeling. I can't even imagine.
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Emilie was a few years ago. I was just reminded of her words when I read about Naomi's friend and her husband.

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Great things to be grateful for, Trish. Bill and his friends have gone yabbie catching before but I've never eaten them.
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The catch is the most fun. I nearly fell in when a yabbie was dropped right behind my behind.

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So true, we never know how much time we've got, so why not make the most of it? I've been enjoying the cooler summer, too. Even with the rain, I'd much rather have it this way.
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True, seize the day. Same here Tat , I don't mind the rain - it fills our tanks as long as no one gets flooded or injured.
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Sounds like you are enjoying your tree changes as much as we are. Country Boy has been trying to catch yabbies in our dams since we moved here but with no luck. He would be so jealous! To cook them, you are meant to put them in clean water for 24 hours to purge their digestive tract. You also need to make sure that you don't put too many in together or the big ones eat the small ones. Put them in the freezer for an hour and then plunge them into boiling water to kill them humanely. Use them in a similar way to the way you would use crabs.
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We heard from one of the locals that salt water cleans them out too. I prefer humane killing too. I couldn't have eaten them after I looked them in the eyes.

You are most welcome if you are passing to come and catch some. We were using scotch fillet I might add that was left out of the fridge/cooler bag when my hubby's truck broke down and he was stranded . Not that they eat fresh meat but it attracts them.

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I needed to hear this reminder to live in the moment right now. I am thinking about my family mission and this really needs to be a part of it.
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Yes, it reminded me again it is the simple things - better to go out and play with kids than sit on twitter or FB.
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A sound reminder, Trish. I do try to focus on the little moments, but sometimes they got lost in the 'why can't I's. I need to get back to what is real and important. x
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