Sunday, 3 February 2013

Sunday Session ~ Hurry up Cinderella !

I'm sure I've heard this song before but not the story behind it. 
It reminds me just how is fleeting childhood (and parenthood) is....



"Cinderella" was written by Steven Curtis Chapman one night after helping his two youngest daughters - Stevey Joy and Maria Sue - to take a bath and after putting them to sleep. Chapman remembers that the girls were stalling him, putting on their gowns of Cinderella, while he was trying to do it quickly so he could put them to bed and go to his studio to work. Chapman says he even refused to read them a story that night. However, after walking out, he says he felt God telling him the name "Emily Chapman", his oldest daughter who was already in her twenties at the time. Steven remembered how he had rushed through some moments in Emily's childhood because of his career, and remembered how he now had a chance to not do it again with his younger daughters. source Wikipedia

Without a doubt most parents want to get to know their children better, enjoy and experience the quirky and every day events in their lives. 
Sometimes I wonder if parents today are so stressed and overworked whether it be in careers (out of or in the home) or even busy just doing the mundane - they we forget to cherish the privilege.

We are just so busy doing stuff and we can't wait to get back to doing what we prefer or have to be doing instead of playing with our children. We rush through everyday and 'hurry up' everything.
The saddest part is what children covet the most (after my iPad) is genuine attention and affection Childhood is when the most crucial time when deep-rooted and unbreakable bonds are developed. 
All too soon they don't want to hang out with us and then they are off in another world. They are gone ...midnight strikes.
*A few months after the song was written in May 2008, Steve daughter, Maria Sue, died due to a tragic accident in the family driveway.The song originally a message to love and cherish parenthood while it lasted, acquired a new message of the frailty of life and how suddenly it can change.

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Great song Trish. The clock really does strike midnight all too soon doesn't it?
Now I'm a weeping mess :)
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I was teary too, we heard it sung in church.
What a beautiful song... it gave me goosebumps!!!
Music is a huge element to daily life in our family, we encourage the girls to love it in anyway possible, be that listening, singing or playing.
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1 reply · active 643 weeks ago
Thank you too Cass.We heard it sung in church and I was touched .
I LOVE LOVE LOVE this song. It gives me the shivers, every time I hear it.
xo
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Me too Jules - I think after IVF we never forgot how hard it was to be on the other side but we might not appreciate it every moment of the day...made me more grateful.
Wow, just beautiful, Trish. What a sad event though to make this song even more meaningful x
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Yes, very sad Shari.
That's such a sad story but the message is true. I know I am very guilty of trying to hurry everyone up so I can get through everything but I'm missing the small moments all the time. I need to slow up and actually live and enjoy the journey. Thanks for the very timely reminder Trish.
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I needed to hear it too Kirsty - we can just rush them too much when we don't need to ...excepting for the school bus.
Another song I have never heard before. Love it. x
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I love this post.The clock really does strike midnight on childhood way too soon.
A beautiful reminder we all need to slow down and soak it all in.Xx
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It gave me a kick for sure , I won't be so quick to rush my boys through ...except for the bus.
so true, we all need to stop, savour ever moment in our childrens lives, in all of our lives.......Love this song but cry now know how much more it means after his precious daughters death xx
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That was so sad - I was teary too, we heard it sung in church on Sunday and I could have cried.
It scares me more than anything, getting to that 'midnight' and realising I didn't slow down enough or say yes enough or just sit down enough. So many lessons for us to learn from becoming more aware and mindful of our day to day right through to just letting go of the guilt and trying harder next time. Sometimes I make myself yell in my head NOW... This is it, NOW just so I can grab the now. My new yoga practice is helping immensely. x
As my kids are now teenagers I'm acutely aware of how quickly time is passing. We do need to remember to cherish every moment.
Good reminder Trish, think I might step away from the computer and get out some puzzles for the kids (bugger the mess!)
This is a timely post Trish. I was just thinking about this stuff this morning. Thanks for the reminder - and for Rewinding.
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