Friday, 29 June 2012

Irrevocable Hands of kindness

This week has been one of my best ever .
I've been overwhelmed, in a good way, by messages of love and support, flowers and chocolates as well as a huge parcel of very thoughtful gifts from dear friends in the blogging community.
I will get around to thanking you properly soon , I am so grateful.

There aren't enough words to thank you all personally.
I've had emails from strangers, or rather - friends I haven't met yet , women who are breast cancer survivors or currently undergoing treatment, offering to answer questions or just have a chat.
Kind, gentle messages across social media.

Countless messages assuring me of prayers, friends offering practical support and of course our families giving us TLC the last 2 weeks.
My husband has been my rock and so caring, under immense stress.
I've been embraced from Dublin to NZ and everywhere in between.
I wish everyone the same measure of support and kindness when they go through difficult periods.


I know it has made me feel stronger , evoking piece of mind and filling my hope tank to the brim.

I have some great quotes and images for my vision board too.
I'm banking on laughter too because have you noticed that when you laugh really hard, you stop thinking about pain, your worries and ... I am sure you can think of more.
People have shared funny images and inspiration on Facebook too.


I feel good in myself. I feel strong , fit and healthy.
I still have one drain in situ, beneath my left axilla (armpit) giving me pain , though the Endone is covering the pain relief well. It's there for a reason probably till Tuesday when I see my surgeon.
My short hair is growing on me - such a difference after 17-18 yrs of longish hair.
Now, I feel daring but can't decide what colour ?

This weekend my littliest miracles will celebrate another trip around the sun. I can't believe - SIX !
They had so many BIG plans to celebrate with their school friends and have been writing invitations for months.
I feel a little disappointment for them. We shall celebrate no less- with cake , fairy bread, chocolate crackles and lollies with their cousins and maybe a few friends . The school party might wait till term 3 commences.

So tell me how kindness touched you this week or share how you lightened the load for someone else ?

 

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Crystal Jones · 679 weeks ago

Mine is nothing compared to the kindness you have recieved by far and my problems seem petty compared to what your going through and you are so strong!
Im a single parent to an overactive toddler and I've come down with the flu so my Mum has taken my little one for me for the night tonight so I can get some rest and re-cooperate! She has lightened the load for me immensely tonight!

I wish you all the best and your in my thoughts during this time :)
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I hope your boys have a wonderful birthday, Trish, and that it's a special celebration for all of you.

The only thing that comes to mind is I came across an 'older' lady who was looking a bit distressed and talking to someone on the phone in the Spotlight car park the other day. She was bending down next to her car and saying "I can't believe it, I've never done it before". I stopped to make sure she was ok, seeing as she was almost on the ground, and she confessed that she had locked her keys in her car. She was on the phone to her husband, who had tied a spare under her car, but she was having trouble finding it, as it was a bit difficult for her to get down there. Anyway, I got down on the ground and looked under her car, managing to find the spare key and untie it for her. She was so grateful, and couldn't stop thanking me. It was such a small thing, but helping her made me feel so good! :)
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2 replies · active 679 weeks ago
Not sure how kindness has touched me this week as it has been a pretty average week, but I am most certainly glad that you are in high spirits and looking positive towards the future. :-) xox
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1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
Kindness overwhelms me sometimes. People can be amazing. So glad you're feeling supported and loved!
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1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
so good to hear you are doing well this week. I love that your vision board is now filling up with words and pictures to help you in your time. Love and support is such a powerful thing. I love reading about kindness being shared so far and wide.

The other day I got an email where a person supported Baby Elijah Rainbow Fisher family. That was my all time favorite of the week as it restored my belief in that there is good in the world.

Looking forward to you beating this, and having the biggest bestest celebration for you and your almost six year old little ones. Happy Birthday little ones from the Woodys :)

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1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
Wish I was there to help with birthday preparations Trish. Just happy to read a post from you.

Anne xx
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1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
Trish .. what a week you have had.. wishing your boys a wonderful 6th birthday!
Stay strong and keep well, you are such an inspiration with your positive attitude.. you are gorgeous! Cant wait to see if you dye your hair.. be daring!
xxxx
Such an uplifting post! And so beautiful to here how supported you are Trish. I've felt kindness from several people this week and it sure is an amazing gift x
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1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
I loved reading this, Trish. One of the mummy bloggers called me up just to check up on me this week, which was really nice and so kind because I needed to have my mood lifted.
Happy birthday to your beautiful boys. 6...wow! xxx
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1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
Well you've read just one of mine Trish. ;)
But laugh long, hard and loud. I have to say my sense of humour isn't everyone's cup of tea... but when you've been on the path that we have, it doesn't matter.
Sending more love, positivity, healing and thoughts your way.
xxXOoo
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1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
Crikey, I can't believe those two little poppets are now SIX!!!
Where on earth has the time flown?!
I'm so glad to hear you have so much support xxx
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Claireyhewitt · 679 weeks ago

Trish, go platinum blonde, it would be so cool. I have always wanted to and never have. It would be fab in your new pixie cut!!
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I have been meaning to email you, just to let you know that you've been in my thoughts. You were there when I needed you (and how we became blog buddies) in August of 2008, which I will always be grateful for. Keep strong and 'feel the love'.

Go RED! (I think your new shorter do is fabulous!)

Take care.
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We've all been in your corner, Trish. I'm grateful to Facebook for letting you know that we were. x
Best of luck for you little ones birthday. I know it will be a day filled with joy and new memories. Fingers crossed you continue to recover. Hugs to you.

To answer your question....I have to say that everyday I am grateful that my mum is there to support my with my disabled son. what life would be like without her support isn't worth thinking about .
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Happy Birthday to your boys! Go blonde, defiently blonde :) Glad your feeling well xx
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Have been thinking of you Trish. Happy to hear you are feeling strong. xx
I'm so happy for you. What you put out into the world you get back - you are experiencing no less than you deserve.
I went back to work today after 13 months maternity leave. I was welcomed back with open arms and understanding that I just wanted to be with my baby boy. I experienced a day of kindness and it was good. Thanks for linking up for Flash Blog Friday. Love seeing your posts and those two little heads being 'flashed' on my page :-)
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