My Little Drummer Boys: Fear , love and beauty ... The light that shines

Tuesday, 29 January 2013

Fear , love and beauty ... The light that shines

I saw a documentary video last night that is incredibly moving and beautiful.

Most women (I imagine) get the fear of losing their breasts and empathize with their 'sisters' who go through breast cancer .

I wanted to share the video & timeline , and encourage you to share it . It is long but worth watching . Jill , a young woman with breast cancer had an amazing photo shoot in Paris with photographer Sue Bryce.

http://www.inbedwithsue.com/the-light-that-shines/

Credit : Australian Portrait Photographer of year 2011 & 2012 Sue Bryce ...#jillinparis

I didn't feel so much fear in losing my breasts because the desire to live was far greater.
Feeling beautiful is important though not high on my list ...my to do list is long enough already.

Just saying ...while I do care about my appearance , it is the least of my worries . I embrace my scars and imperfections not just because I have no choice. I hope I have beauty within ...

My hair is growing back (a different colour ), not so my eyebrows. I still hardly recognise myself in the mirror .I am changed.

I am so thankful my husband of almost 23yrs has supported no loved me through all the changes and imperfections (I had zillions already) .

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debdane 54p · 633 weeks ago

Thank you for sharing this video (am bawling just a wee bit). My father in law was diagnosed with cancer last year and had surgery. We just found out he now has to start chemo and I know my husband is holding his fear and worry inside. You are a strong and amazing woman and we are all imperfect... You are beautiful hon - deb xx
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Carly @ Ecru Designs · 633 weeks ago

Hi Trish, isn't Sue Bryce an amazing woman! I've been following and learning from her for a couple of years and she is such an inspiration. As is Jill. Phenomenal story of courage, love and attitude.
I cannot imagine what you and your family have gone through and experienced, wishing you and 'your sisters' strength and happiness xx
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Amy · 633 weeks ago

Trish, thank you for sharing this video. Tears are streaming down my face. That was a beautiful video. I regularly think about how you and your family are going.

x

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Ai Sakura · 633 weeks ago

It is a beautiful video Trish.. thanks for sharing this. It is so inspirational, and so are you.
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NeenishArts 33p · 633 weeks ago

Wow - I can't watch the video right now but your words are so touching. Clearly you do have beauty within. Keep on being beautiful because you are. x

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Kate · 633 weeks ago

wow I can hardly see the screan through tears. Thank you for sharing, your words are beautiful
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Anorina@SameliasMum · 633 weeks ago

I will try and watch the video when I'm at mums house (our internet is super slow).
You are a beautiful, inspirational and amazing woman and your strength shines bright x
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@norlinm · 633 weeks ago

I'll be watching the video later when I get a chance. I can't wait to meet up with you again Trish - in person. You're a super brave & wonderful person with a great soul. xx

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havealaughonme 84p · 633 weeks ago

I have made a note to watch video once ferals (darlings) are in bed. Your courage and strength has no boundaries and from the sounds of it you have a fantastic hubby. xx
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Lyndal · 633 weeks ago

what a beautiful video - and what powerful words you have written here. I have always admired both your courage and your honesty x

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bbeingcool 31p · 633 weeks ago

Oh my goodness... this is BEAUTIFUL.

The post and the video.

Sniff.... sob... sniiiiffff......

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mogletho 15p · 633 weeks ago

Beautiful....as you are too Trish x
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Twinkle in the Eye · 632 weeks ago

Your beauty is always shining :-)
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ritaazar2 59p · 632 weeks ago

Thanks for sharing this video. Your post is so touching Trish. It's true I don't visit often over here but I truly believe you are a beautiful and amazing person.
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jessnewman877 75p · 632 weeks ago

I can't watch the video now (boatman is sick and asleep), but i have often wondered how women after breast cancer, (and during) deal with the physical changes. As much as my boobs aren't the worlds greatest, I dont think I'd want to lose them. It must be very confronting. I think it's wonderful that you can focus on your inner beauty Trish. That goes to show just how much of it you have. xx

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Sannah · 632 weeks ago

Beautiful video, beautiful photos, beautiful woman.
Thanks for sharing, very inspirational.
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Lilly · 632 weeks ago

What a beautiful video Trish, and so inspiring. We are all different and the thing about blogging is that we get to see people's beauty without having ever 'seen' them in person. All the distractions are not there. You possess the kind of beauty in abundance that truly counts in this life Trish. And while things are different now, I know from my best friend's experience, that ultimately what was before can be replaced by something way better. And your husband? Well he is a champion too and he understands better than anyone who you are, what you have achieved and how hard the journey has been. Take Care!
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havealaughonme 84p · 632 weeks ago

I just watched the video - words can't express what I'm feeling. The tears on my cheeks do. Thanks for sharing Trish xxxx
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Linda · 632 weeks ago

I have no words to describe how I am feeling right now - suffice to say I cannot speak and the tears are running down my cheeks.
Thank you so much for sharing. Sending lots of love, hugs and positive energy your way ! Have the best weekend you can.
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Kelly HTandT · 632 weeks ago

Beautiful post Trish, thank you for sharing. Your words are always so inspiring, you're such a beautiful person x
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