Sunday, 16 December 2012

On the far side of yesterday

No doubt you heard what happened yesterday unless you live in a cave.
Unbelievable, shocking, heartbreaking and so tragic.

I read this morning all 20 children were aged 6-7yrs old, the same age as my cherubs.
I cannot begin to imagine their parents grief or how their community will recover and rebuild their lives.

In the back of my mind is the fear from yesterday, scanning the list , I was relieved there were no twins.

All any of us can do when we encounter unfathomable tragedy so far away but so close to our own hearts is to hold your children tight always. This will shape the rest of their lives, knowing how much you love them, more than anything else.

I'm so very grateful for so many things this week .

I got free printable from Kate Hadfield

I'm most thankful , that the Drummer boys have their delightful kindergarten teacher again for Year 1. Class lists were posted at school Wednesday, they are the only boys from their class [11-12 boys] to have this privilege. Two girls from their kindy class will join them too.

Ms W is the only kindergarten teacher moving up to yr 1. There will be four classes , though they're away from their little buddies they will know enough of the 'new' boys and girls in the class.

I had asked purposely they remain together [they are very independent anyway], not so much because they are twins but rather for my benefit . As I will continue my treatment [until October] and have ongoing medical appointments etc - it is just easier for me to deal with one lot of classroom commitments, assemblies,notes or whatever.

I didn't think about it till afterwards but it is also a huge relief that I won't have to introduce myself to a new teacher and advise them about my breast cancer. I have a suspicion the teachers consciously and carefully left my boys with Ms W or she choose them because [I might be biased here] she told me they make her laugh and she enjoys them in her class.

I'm grateful too that the school year is drawing to a close, it's been a lovely year for them at school and their reports were pleasing. They have come so far and it's a joy to hear them read to me.

Today ,we are making Reindeer noses for their friends and that will make all the kids jubilant !
It's a pity, there are only just enough Maltesers so we cannot indulge.


What are you grateful for today ?

 

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Those little noses are so cute!! Yesterday's events are just too much to think about right now.
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1 reply · active 645 weeks ago
Yes Caz, I have avoided TV news coverage because I just don't need to see images. The images in my head are enough.
You must not have bought enough maltesers then! ;-) I'm so glad your boys will stay together and have a familiar teacher!
What happened in the US is nothing short of shattering. Complete and utter unfair shit.
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Totally unfair and the teachers courage and selflessness is something the world must remember always.
I must live in a case, because I am just finding out the news from you. So heartbreaking.

You are so lucky to have the same teacher. My son had the best teacher in kindergarten and he would have totally loved to stay with her in year one..
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Tat, I don't watch the news but I heard it on the radio first then it was all over twitter and facebook. I hope your son gets a great yr1 teacher, we worry who we entrust our precious cherubs too.
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My son has the same teacher next year also, he is one of the two boys to have the same teacher. We are happy about this as he has "worked him out".
It's so sad about the US shootings, the more I read the more upset I become - they were my son's age.
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I know Bec I feel the same because my boys are this age too, they have 20 children in their class too. I think about every little face and cannot the loss of so many precious souls.
I'm glad you are happy your son has the same teacher too.
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I went to my grand-daughter's kindergarten presentation day on Friday and sat with all those beautiful children.
On Saturday, while minding her, this news came through.
I couldn't control my pain and thoughts of "What if?"
I'm even more grateful for her and the love we share, even though I didn't think that was possible.
I am grateful I live in Australia.
And I am grateful for all the good people in this world, including the Americans.
Here is a beautiful tribute I found this morning: http://www.godtube.com/watch/?v=F1EM0MNU
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That was a beautiful tribute and song thank you for sharing Ron. My sons' class has 20 children too and I cannot bear the imagine how it feel to a school and community to lose that many children and their teachers too.
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Lovely post Trish. I think I might take a leaf out of your book and write a similar post (maybe). I didn't want to write anything on my blog about the terrible events in Newton but at the same time, I feel stuck. I feel like I have to somehow acknowledge it before I can write other things. I have posted on my other blog (shopping one) but it's not personal. Sounds like your boys had a great year and I'm glad for your sake and theirs that they will be together with the same teacher next year.
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Yes, I had to say something especially as I was already going to write about school and the new yr 1 class. It is fitting we acknowledge this treacherous tragedy in our own way .
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Looping teachers is such a great idea. Teachers already know the child(ren) and it makes life so much easier.
Very pleased for you and your children.
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Thanks Jacana, it means a lot to me at the moment. I don't know how to thank them.
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Noah Pozner was 6. He had a twin sister, Arielle. :( I don't know if it's wrong to write this. You'd probably rather not know. :(
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It's ok Melissa I would want (need) to know, I don't know what I was thinking - just maybe wishful thinking that no parents lost 2 children at once , though it again now it's tragic no matter what - so many innocent children.
I have only seen the minimum on the awful tragedy, I cant bare the sadness of it all.. glad your boys are settled with their lovely teacher next year! x
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themotherexperiment · 645 weeks ago

It's so wonderful that your boys get to have the same teacher and I'm sure it must be a huge relief for you to not have to explain about your treatment again. That's so great.
I can't think about what happened to those precious little kids in America and their brave selfless teachers. I can't think about it because when I do I can't do anything else but shake and cry. It's just not right.
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it's always such a relief to have a little bit of familiarity. Good luck for 2013 Trish, Wishing you a Merry Christmas.

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