Tuesday, 6 September 2011

A huge sigh of relief

I think we need to go out tonight and celebrate that everything is ok and my husband's cancer is NOT back. I am so very relieved.

The past 12 days all I have thought about is that our world was about to shatter and turn upside down all over again. Neither of us has slept well.

I know I didn't , directly , blog about it but my husband  had a Brain/head MRI exactly two weeks ago. They wanted to rule out the cause of ongoing headaches and other symptoms especially dizziness and generally feeling unwell.  [He had a very rare, malignant tumour removed in April 2010 from his right temple/muscle very close to his facial nerves/skull. Then he had 6 weeks of radiation therapy in June/July. Hub will have ongoing followup for years]

So 36hrs later they tried calling him. We were at the farm and mobile phone reception is dodgy. They called my mobile and told me they wanted him back for more images asap. I was in town with the kids about to check out a school for next year .Talk about HEART FAILURE ! I then had to go back to farm and tell him. It was terrible to see his face drop !

Last Monday , 6 days after the first MRI he had the second MRI (now his 3rd). They just told him they had found something but needed more images/angles . No Dr was about [6.30pm] and no one said anything about what it might be.

On Tuesday morning Hub called his Radiation oncology nurse, M, [from last year] to ask when he could see Dr. T or anyone ? M said Dr T was away till Thursday afternoon but M said she would call him back. She did [thank God] , to say they needed to compare images from last week to Brain/Head MRI he had in Sept 2010. The images hadn't come down yet , then M said it would probably be Monday (yesterday) before they would.

We heard nothing Monday. I felt  SICK bad for asking him about 100 times if they had called. This morning he went out to work for a few hours and came back for lunch. Again , no news ! I kept encouraging to call them, he said the numbers were in his diary in our work vehicle (not here).

Finally I couldn't wait a minute longer so I ring him.
He says "They think it is just post op scarring - that's all !" I ask him is he sure 10 ten times again. The Radiation oncologist Dr T told him to go off on our holiday and forget about it all. He said Dr T wasn't impressed that the MRI peeps didn't speak to her first (after 1st MRI 2 weeks ago) .

It would have saved us a LOT of heartache ! Though I can truly appreciate they wanted to be sure and not be dismissive of any slight changes.

Onwards ...




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Oh Trish! What heartache. So glad all is ok. Enjoy every second of your holiday!
thank god he is okay.. I know how it feels to worry... my mom has cancer so everyday i worry about her.. nothing as serious as your husband.. but cancer is cancer.
I hope you guys have the best time ever =D
Lots of hugs

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What an emotional roller coaster!! so glad the news was good. I bet you are feeling wrecked after all that. Take care. Cazxx
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Phew. Very happy for you all xx
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I cannot imagine how scary the last few weeks have been for you Trish. Great news!
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Great news Trish. Must have been an incredibly stressful few weeks for you and you family. x
Great result Trish. I know about those waiting hours xx
That is wonderful news Trish. So glad that God spared you more grief.
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I can't even begin to imagine how LONG THOSE DAYS must have seemed! Im so relieved its good news for you. Your right - its definitely time to celebrate!
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Thank heavens, thank heavens! I'm so glad everything is ok xx
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praise God He is OK! I can't believe the doctors put you through that, but SO incredibly glad to hear that the cancer is not back. *huge hugs*. Go, celebrate, breathe deeply and then get a decent night's sleep!!!
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So relieved for you both. Hope you both gets lots of sleep and relaxation xxx
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That is such wonderful news. Sending you huge hugs, the feeling of relief must be phenomenal!

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Thank God that the burden of worrying is over.
Sending you love and hugs, Trish x
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Oh Trish that sounds like a hellish two weeks! Thank god he is okay!

When do you guys leave for your holiday?
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Oh Trish, what a fortnight you've had. Sending you much love. xox
Thank.God!!
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Are they so detached from the real world that they can't understand that a family is waiting on the other end of the line to see if their world will be turned upside down! Grrr, that makes me mad! I'm so glad it turned out to be nothing to worry about in the end, and so sorry you had to worry so much to begin with!
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What a tough couple of weeks you have had. So pleased to hear you have a happy ending but will no doubt take a few days to really unwind again and feel "normal".
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I haven't spent much time in blogland or on twitter recently so I had missed all of your stress and concern. I am sorry that you had such a difficult few weeks but so happy that the news was all good. Love and hugs to you all and happy holidays.
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I missed this! I have been too scared to ask you, I thought about it all day Monday, wondering if you'd heard. Somehow I didn't see this on Tues (I was sick).

OMG> I'm so relieved! I hate that you went through that long wait. But am so glad that they were thorough and that it all turned out in the end.

You just made my day. Seriously, was whiny and petty and sad and feeling sorry for myself. You just completely shifted my perspective and made me feel so much better.

I wish I could hug you right now.xxxx
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I am so relieved for you that the cancer hasn't returned. I can only imagine how stressful the last couple of weeks must have been for you xx
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Thank God that your husband is ok. So relieved for you. xx God bless
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