Monday, 14 October 2013

Survivors - Life Defining Moments


Our lives will be full of defining moments, but those moments don't have to define us. Author unknown

My lovely Nurse took it on my iPad not the best quality.

I am not sure if today is a defining moment or not .

I dropped my boys at school and in the few minutes it took to drive to the Cancer Care Centre this song played.



The station was tuned to my husband's choice , in a vehicle I didn't expect to drive today. I didn't bother changing the station.

I heard these lyrics , for the first time . It kind of made my heart sing, as I joined in.


Thank you Matthew West for " Survivors "

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa
Whoa, whoa, whoa, oh

You've been dropped like a dream to the floor
You've been told not to try anymore
But you're wakened from yesterday's war
'Cause you're a survivor

And your strength has been stolen away
And your faith has been worn to a fray
But you live to live on one more day
'Cause you're a survivor

And nothing can stop you now
Nothing can back you down
You never give up, you never give in
You're a survivor, whoa, whoa, whoa, oh

For the phone call that tore you apart
For the fear that gripped your heart
For the moment you saw who you are
And what you're made of

For the cancer that stole all your hair
For the smile like you just don't care
For your hope in midnight prayer
You're a survivor, yeah, yeah, yeah

And nothing can stop you now
Nothing can back you down
You never give up, you never give in
You're a survivor, whoa, whoa, whoa, oh

I'm convinced neither death nor life
Neither demons nor angels of light
Shadows present a future bright
Can separate us

From the love that will lead us on
To the hope when all hope is gone
'Til the day heaven calls us home
We are survivors

And nothing can stop us now
Nothing can back us down
We never give up, we never give in

And nothing can stop us now
Nothing can back us down
We never give up, we never give in
'Cause we are survivors

We are, we are, we are, yeah
Oh, we are survivors
Whoa, we are survivors

Whoa, whoa, whoa, oh

Oh boy . Just what I needed to hear. I am so grateful to be here.Though, lucky you couldn't hear me singing.

Sadly, I flicked on Facebook as I waited to be called for my last Herceptin, an IV treatment I've been having for a year {every 3 weeks}. The beautiful SJ whose video I posted Friday , passed away yesterday. She was on Today - tonight 2-3 wks ago, speaking about her race against time to be married to her sweetheart. She also leaves behind a little boy, one year old.

Again , though I only knew SJ through our online FB group. I am deeply saddened. Life is so unfair. SJ lost her sister to Breast cancer 3 yrs ago.

A stark reminder too , that every day is a gift, not GIVEN.

God creates defining moments in our lives so that we can see ourselves first and then discover just how much we really, really need Him.
Unknown Author


Please remember to check your Boobies .
Make your mark today.
Have you had a life defining moment ?





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Wow - what a beautiful uplifting yet tragic and affirming post.

Thank you for sharing your journey xx
1 reply · active 595 weeks ago
Thank you Lana.
Boobs still okay here (although thank you for the reminder - I will book my mammogram now) 0- yay for last injection!!
1 reply · active 595 weeks ago
Good on you Jeanie.
The song - wow! A beautiful message just for you xx
I am so sorry to hear about your friend. Best wishes xx
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1 reply · active 595 weeks ago
Yes, it was a very poignant moment.
Love your face off.

x
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1 reply · active 595 weeks ago
Thank you Kelley, you warm the cockles of my heart.
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Steph Veljanovska · 595 weeks ago

Beautiful Post. So sorry to hear of the loss of your Friend xox
1 reply · active 595 weeks ago
Thanks Steph.
Aww bless Trish, I will do the boobie check tonight, it's been awhile. That is very exciting news you have just had your final Herceptin treatment, I hope you are feeling okay. Sorry to hear about SJ, hugs to you and sending my love to her hubby and child. xx
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1 reply · active 595 weeks ago
Hope the boobie check was in order.
I'm so proud of you Trish, for all you have achieved and the strength and grace you have shown. I hope this is the beginning of brighter times for you. I'm very sorry though to hear about your friend. The loss to her loved ones will be immense.
So sorry about your friend. Hooray for the last dose of herceptin!

Each day is indeed a gift, thank you for the reminder.
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Songs can be very powerful cant they. I remember going to my Nanna's funeral and in the car the song played Life's a Bitch - and at 15 thats how it felt. I've grabbed hold of songs and used them throughout my life - mainly positive ones. Pleased to hear the Herceptin is finished - hope that means you are nearing the end of these treatments.

Very sorry to hear about your friend - even if she was only online it hard when you have been travelling some of the same paths. xx
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1 reply · active 595 weeks ago
Thank you Annaleis. I am sorry about your Nanna , that is a hard age to lose a special loved one.
Wow, I had goosebumps reading this, what a powerful sign! Ironically enough, the date you published this post, Oct 14, is MY defining moment - Oct 14 2006 I gave birth to our rainbow twins :)
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1 reply · active 595 weeks ago
Thank you Emma. I would never have missed The Dance either.
Wow Trish, such a powerful moment for you. So sorry about your friend-life isn't fair at all. Congrats on your last Herceptin. Stay strong, stay positive (you look fantastic by the way) Big Hugs x
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Congrats on your last treatment of Herceptin. Sorry to hear that SJ has passed away. It sure makes me grateful and blessed to have the people in my family who have survived cancer xxx
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