Saturday, 9 June 2012

Kindness

So I signed up to the  Million Acts of Kindness this morning after I read Jo's from Country Life experiment's post last night on giving and saw the button again on How I spend my Dash blog today.


I've been feeling down after watching friends struggling this week - one with her mother-in-law undergoing chemo and her own child ill in hospital again. On the way to hospital her vehicle broke down at a busy freeway exit and NO ONE stopped to help - cars just hurtled by , she was all alone with her sick daughter , though twitter offered their help.

Another internet friend's mother is gravely ill in ICU where they are preparing to say goodbye. A kind friend of hers was trying to organise something to help her and keeping her URL friends updated.

It brings back intense memories of being called to ICU to say goodbye to my own Dad 6.5 years ago.

My own life is not without it's dramas too.

It is times like this that acts of kindness are so important , though any time is perfect to start making a difference.

Countless times I've been gifted  Acts of random kindness . So many good and kind people have crossed my path, I feel blessed.

I loved what Jeanette wrote ...{the blog it was posted on originally no longer exists} -

The Simplest Acts of Random Kindness (A.R.K)

Build one! :)


Smile
Laugh

Say hello

Help for no reason

Embrace with a look

Hug with your words

Listen and actually hear

Make eye contact (but do not stare)

Don't argue even when you are right

Leave encouraging, anonymous notes

Wave at a total stranger just because

Laugh for no reason at all (it's contagious)

Turn the texting off and make an actual call

Pay for the coffee for the person behind you in line

Look at yourself in the mirror and say Thank you

Buy a bag of groceries and give it to a family in need

Hold on to your opinion and encourage another person's

Let a child teach you something (even if you already know)

Share your umbrella... even if it means you are left in the rain.

Tell your spouse at least one thing that makes you fall in love with them all over again

Say please and thank you as you tell the Deli person what you want on your sandwich
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I feel motivated today to keep the kindness moving .



50 acts of kindness a day for 55 yrs - one bus stop at a time. That's a commitment!

.. what can you do ?

Check the website ~ find daily ideas, hints and suggestions for what you can do to make life happier for the people around you ...not to mention YOU !!


I took the pledge even if I am late to the party.
  1. Remember there's no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end." ~ Scott Adams
  2. Make the world a better place by practicing acts of kindness - one A.R.K. at a time ...soon we will all be sailing.
  3. Loving will never empty your heart and giving A.R.K. will never empty your pockets.
  4. Ask yourself: Have you been kind today ? Make kindness your daily modus opernadi and change your world ~ annie lennox.
  5. I still can't imagine what 1,000, 000 acts of kindness would do ...
What are your thoughts on random acts of kindness do they make a difference ?
How have you been RAK' ed or ARK'ed   ? 


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Amen... I have so much to add from our own experience here... except we've known unforgettable kindness. Perhaps we are lucky. xxXOoo
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1 reply · active 678 weeks ago
I think we have as well for the most part , and yes we are lucky Carmen.
Thanks Jayne and I've always appreciated your supportive comments here and the giggles you give me everywhere.
I'm all for this Trish! I tried to start a blog built around this concept but it just didn't take off and I kind of felt like a fool > http://thepayitforwardproject.blogspot.com.au/. I totally believe RAK make a difference and at the very least, I hope they are good karma. I wish I had money to make a real difference to people but I let people into queues and do small stuff like that :)
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1 reply · active 678 weeks ago
That would be have been disappointing Cathy - I am sorry I didn't know about it or I would have been on board -
Nothing to say you can't try again ;).
The last year your voice has exploded...
I let a truck driver out at a busy roundabout the other day , from a service station - junction of three highways - he must have waved me a thank you 5 times - made me smile for ages.
This is wonderful Trish, and I am sure all the random acts of kindness you do will come back to you ten fold in time.
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I've been blessed many times ...at the Easter show over 5-6 hrs - i was given by 2 random people a total of over $30 in ride coupons, then my nephew with us was given another $20 or so in ride coupons by another stranger walking past.
My friend with me was amazed and said what good karma I had. My twins and nephew were so excited to get extra rides they wouldn't otherwise have had.
It's all about the little things. The RAKs we do everyday, even without thinking about it.

I haven't been as pro-active as I hoped (I don't think), but every little RAK helps & that's the point.

xo
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1 reply · active 677 weeks ago
Absolutely , Jules, one small RAK at a time and yes the things we should do without thinking, manners, politeness and basic compassion and courtesy.
How totally very cool. I love this! I am so into random acts of kindness.

Thanks for linking this in with #teamfriday.... A bit of motivation to be better never goes astray.

I am now going to share this onto my twitter feed and my facebook feed. I love it so.

Thanks Trish. MWAH!
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1 reply · active 677 weeks ago
Thanks Belinda x
I love the idea of spreading RAK around. I think I will start today! 1 thing I am doing is filling my freezer with portions of yummy winter soups to take to my friend who is about to have a baby and will be running short of time.
1 reply · active 677 weeks ago
That is a souper (pun intended) idea for a new mum. I took my soup maker to a friends last week and made us both a yummy soup.
I love your beautiful heart, Trish. My friend is doing a similar thing and I'm inspired by her enthusiasm for it. Kindness is one of my favourite words. I truly think it has the power to change the planet.
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I agree , one small act can be multiplied over and over again.
Trish this is a wonderful way to share some of luck or happiness. I like to bake or cook for friends for no reason except to make one less job they have to do! sometimes I think I'm the one getting the bigger reward!
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Your are a lovely friend Annaleis.
I'm a bit believer in random acts of kindness. My family often accuse me of being too generous but I'm not sure how you can be? Gorgeous post. Thanks for sharing xx
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Nee , i agree you can never be too kind or generous.
I'm often accused of being too generous, but life is too short not to be:) I try to do small RAKs regularly and bake a cake for my singing teacher and take to each lesson,as he and his wife both really appreciate it. Karma always comes back to you:0
I think this is such a gorgeous idea Trish. Kindness never dates. I tyr to do RAKs as often as possible, but there is always room for more. I love the idea that something that really doesnt take much effort on my behald can make such a difference to someone elses day. What goes around comes around and a heart full of kindness is the healthiest heart of all. xxx
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