Tuesday, 17 April 2012

You don't know what you got till it's gone

Technology in 2012 means we are never far from a status update, a text message or even a tweet or instagram to friends or followers.


Our days are wait - I have to change my status, I'm instagram'ing this or like the Logies joke - tweet the winner first it first.We live our lives on hold to do it , but oh the memories we document to over share with our extended community of family and friends.

Still, I can't believe hubby has not embraced this technology. I'd have missed him less if he did...just saying. He can send a text message and operate a mobile phone - that is all. He is happy with that and an occasional flutter on ebay or a browse through Trading post online.

After spending a week in Sydney {4 hours + from our new home} - the numbers don't go high enough and words can't describe how much...haha.... I missed him. I wish he would catch up with instant technology.

We stayed with family - the numbers don't go high enough and words can't describe how much I've missed them since we tree changed to Central West NSW. My little boys especially miss their brother,  9yr old cousin and his sisters, Aunties and Uncles. They loved seeing their big brother again (did visit at Easter) when he came to Mum's for dinner. I've {I'll miss her again when I have to do my own washing,cooking and cleaning} missed my Mum.


It was lovely to catch up with a few friends - I missed them more because some I hadn't seen since before we left for our Western Australia roadtrip.

Squeezing in a quick chat and coffee with Denyse before Sam's eye appointment was lovely, and she generously shared a few DPCON goodies with us.

Moving away means you leave friendships behind , some permanently. I still didn't see everyone I wanted to. It is hard to accept I won't see some people again , playgroup friends and others in my old community.

We saw the the boys' old preschool teacher's , unforgetable, 'Lightening' car at the station,late one night. I wished I made time to go and say hello. We might still...

Facebook gives me a thread of hope. I can still feel a little connected to the outside world. A world I embrace and miss.

Facetime , not connected in any way to Facebook will keep us connected to their cousins.

In other news my 80yr old Mother in law is now a Facebook convert , beware nieces and nephews , Nanny is watching you ! We visited her yesterday and she asked me to sign her up.

The Drummer boys have had a great week with their cousins, family and friends. We went to the Easter Show, celebrated the opening of Madame Tussaud's , Darling Harbour (It was incredible and a  post for another day) and just chilled.

Country roads will take me home later today ...to my love.

 

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Great to hear you have had a chance to catch up with your family, that car is AWESOME! have a safe journey home :)
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I never liked Facebook, and resisted it for years, but I'm a thorough convert now! I've loved being friends to with bloggers I follow, because it's just that next level of knowing them better, and I already love them anyway!
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I love social media too! It makes me feel like I am not so far from friends and family. I don't think I would be surviving our tree change if I didn't have my blog, and social media to keep in contact. Country Boy doesn't have facebook etc either. He just uses mine grrrr.
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That car is freakin' awesome!!! I know my son would go nuts if he saw it!

I totally get this post. I am so thankful for modern technology that will allow us to keep in touch with our family when we leave in just over 2 weeks time :( Even just sharing photos and keeping up to date via statuses on FB. Still helps me to feel connected to everyone.
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Am kind of blown away by that car! I did read your post, honest. But the Car!!!!! Holy Freaking Hell. Sam would DIE!

I'm glad you're catching up. I know how hard it is when you're missing people.
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Wow to the car! My six year old and five year old would be in their element!
I must admit it's been 10 years since my last trip *home*... oops. Time to make that journey later this year. Gulp.
Sending you strength and love whilst wishing you safe travels and clarity! xx
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I keep in touch with my family and friends via facebook, more so those who are interstate and internationally. It's a great way to stay in touch and for them to see what's been happening instead of just talking on the phone. :)
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I'm actually fasting from Facebook this month ... I got a lot more hits on my blog when I could put new posts on there ... but other than that, I'm actually surviving quite nicely!!!
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Wow, very cool car. And a very true point too... a great reminder to be thankful for what we've got.
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I'm not big on putting updates on Facebook but I love using it to stay in touch with my friends.

My two boys would have been speechless, for once in their lives, if they saw that car!
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I know that feeling...missing your extended family and friends when you are not living near them....but knowing that you are right where you are supposed to be...it doesn't make the 'missing' any easier though...
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OMG, nanny on Facebook, she sounds awesome!
I get what you are saying about the tree change thing 100%. I found it very upsetting to leave some good friends behind. Facebook is what makes it more bearable, that and the phone. I do plan to visit them again, when I can.
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Being able to stay connected with old friends and new is certainly one of the great things about modern technology, especially with Skype and the like for those with family and friends overseas. And yes that car is pretty amazing, Mr 2 has just recently discovered the "Cars" stuff. I forgot about the power of all that merchandising!
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Anne xx
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